The Bitterness of a Husband

I have never seen a man who worked tirelessly outside but still scold by his wife when returned home about he has never company his daughter. She only care about her own free time in the evening before bed but she never see his husband is still required to work in the midnight after showered and played with his daughter. She never want to know her husband did the house work after office work when she is surfing those video clips on youtube. 

When we sink into a quarrel, she repeatedly mentioned about her sacrifices to the family, and anything about my faulty, e.g. replying message, napping after dinner, playing badminton outside with friends on every Friday evening. She always complained about my income is too little, but she never let me to expand my connection. Some sentences were mentioned by her every often, e.g. why should I stay here with you? that's a faulty decision to marry you (I keep silence about this as I have promised to take care of her and give her a stable home with my entire life when we get married)... I could have a better life if I keep staying with my parents at China (She actually constantly has quarrel with her mum and dad over the phone/video call)... my father will love and company your daughter more than you (but she never thought her father has retired but I still need to work)... my parents are far more better than yours (my heart was broken everytime when I heard about this, as she never appreciate my parents actually raised me and my sibling up toughly, and they purposely stay away from her to avoid any possibility of confrontation). 

By the way, she also compared my behaviour of reading on phone during off office hour with those husbands who shared picture and video of playing with kids in facebook(she purposely ignored the husband's wife actually working outside and some of the husbands actually not often play with children but just occasionally shared their life... she purposely ignored that I often take my daughter to playground and teach her math patiently during my free time. She never admit that her math and logical thinking are as poor as a primary school student, so that she scold my daughter impatiently every time when come into contact with number).

A women without empathy, will never satisfy with anything she has. A person who cannot think from the perspective of other, the faulty vision only sees things as they are, and not as they ought to be.... this is the reality of world. We have to be willing to observe reality as it is and not always as we want it to be.